The common present route seems to be "You > notice I”. Isn’t it?

Rather complicated plans are usually needed for this route. 

Things are likely to be different when "I > notice" ... myself... my thoughts... my actions.

This route doesn’t need plans, or sometimes even actions.

Compassion easily seeps in and we seem to be able to strive forward with better balance.

Trivial things become of value, and we seem to do things with empathy and care — actions that feel insignificant, but in reality can change the lives of others... or at the least transform someone’s bad day into a good day.